Domestic Violence Caught On Camera

Domestic violence is not a one-way street.

The perception that physical abuse among loved ones is strictly a women's issue is far from reality. In fact, about 40 percent of all victims of domestic violence in the U.K. are men, as this video by the ManKind Initiative points out, citing research by the country's Office of National Statistics. The group provides help and support for male victims of domestic abuse in the U.K.

The video above features a pair of actors portraying a couple fighting aggressively in a London public space. When the man shouts at the woman and begins shoving her, bystanders quickly intervene. However, when the tables are turned and the woman plays the role of the physical aggressor, not a single person gets involved. In fact, several people can be seen smirking or giggling in the background.

The experiment begs the question: Why do we view domestic violence against men as less serious -- and sometimes even humorous -- when, according to the American Medical Association, male victims feel guilt, shame, depression and withdrawal from relationships, just like women do?

The video promoted a #ViolenceIsViolence hashtag on Twitter, and users voiced their support for building awareness for the issue.

Similar statistics exist in the U.S., where roughly one in seven men aged 18 and olderhave reported being the victim of severe physical violence by an intimate partner, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. While that number remains higher for American women -- one in four -- the prevalence of abuse against men may be surprising.

Domestic abuse affects certain demographics at startlingly disproportionate rates. For example, about two in five gay and bisexual American men have reported experiencing domestic violence -- a figure on par with heterosexual women. Homeless women and women with disabilities also report staggeringly high rates of domestic abuse.

Mark Brooks, ManKind chairman, said recent events in pop culture -- specifically Jay Z and Solange Knowles' infamous elevator dispute after the Met Gala in New York City -- pushed him to create the video.

"The reaction to the Jay Z and Solange lift incident exposed the stark double standardstowards violence against men and women in society," he told HuffPost UK. "After the attack, the question trending on social media was, 'What did Jay Z say to Solange?' If it was the other way around and Jay Z had attacked Solange, people would have been asking very different questions."

"The Kindness project in the Middle east"

Father's Day Challenge

Father’s Day is almost here, and I put together some acts of kindness I am planning to do in honor of my father whom I cherish and love.

1. Say “Good morning” to a stranger father.

2. Offer to pick up groceries for a neighbor father in need.

3. Write a thoughtful letter of recommendation for a father I know.

4. Bring a box of doughnuts to share with a father at the office.

5. Hold the door open for a father with a stroller.

6. Offer baby sitting services to a father who could use a break.

7. Give a good book to a father.

8. Call or write to a teacher father who changed my life.

9. Offer my seat to an elderly or disabled father.

10. Write a note to the boss of a colleague father and explain how great a job that person is doing.

11. Throw away my trash—and a father’s—after a movie, picnic or visit to a park.

12. Volunteer to take care of a father’s pet (or pick up the mail/water the plants) while he is vacationing.

By Heidi Shebaro
Founder of "The Kindness Project in the Middle East", a teacher and a blogger

Baby Falls From Second-Story Window In China, Caught By 2 Men (VIDEO)

It's hard not to hold your breath while watching this video of two men in southern China desperately reaching out to save a 1-year-old baby who's about to fall from a second-story window.

The child climbed onto a window ledge during a thunderstorm, said a vendor who lives across from the building in Guangdong Province, according to Euronews.

Two men, identified only as Mr. Li and Mr. Hu, noticed the baby and rushed beneath the window, hoping to catch him. Other residents also brought items that could help break the fall, including cardboard and what appears to be an ottoman.

Fortunately, the items weren't needed.

"I didn't think too much at the time. I was just afraid of failing to catch him. Some people put down cardboard to avoid serious injuries to the baby if I fail to catch him," Li was quoted as saying by China's CCTV.

"It was nothing but human instinct to do so," Hu said.

The baby was uninjured in the fall and reunited with his mom.

 "The Kindness Project in the Middle East"

Dads in the eyes of their children

To show fathers just how loved they are, Shutterfly's greeting card creator, Treat, asked kids what makes their dads special and compiled their responses in the video shown below. Watch it and enjoy!

I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father’s protection.” – Sigmund Freud

By Heidi Shebaro 

Founder of "The Kindness Project in the Middle East", a teacher and a blogger

Our Biases When 'Homeless' Man And 'Businessman' Collapse In Street

If you saw a person collapse on the street, what would you do?

YouTuber NorniTube decided to take to the streets of Paris to test how pedestrians would react if he collapsed, and what role his appearance would play.

Would people help him if he collapsed wearing a suit? What if he were dressed as a homeless man?

As you might have guessed, not one person helped when he was made to look homeless in this social experiment. Some passers-by looked slightly concerned, others nonchalantly walked past. No one stopped -- even when he called out. When he's dressed in a suit and falls in exactly the same way in the same location, however, reactions are stunningly different. 

"I've never been so sad and shocked while filming as I was for this experience," says the video creator. "I hope this video will make you want to help anyone regardless of their appearance."

Watch the video here:

By Heidi Shebaro 

Founder of "The Kindness Project in the Middle East", a teacher and a blogger

Inspiring stories for Father's Day

In honor of fathers everywhere.. fathers who sacrifice, fathers who care and love, I gathered real-life inspiring stories about all kinds of fathers - from a security guard to the everyday heroes on whom we depend for strength, support and encouragement.

Different stories told by fathers themselves or the children who love them, but one thing remains common: no matter how difficult things may be, no matter how hard times may get, you can always count on a dad.

So to dads everywhere we say, Happy Father’s Day!

Alexandra G: When I was 7 years old, my class had a father's day where all the dads came with their kids. I had to explain to everyone that my dad had passed away just a couple of months before. Soon after, the door opened and my uncle was standing there and said "sorry I'm late". He was my dad for the day. He took a 4 hour flight for me.

Lexi: Upon entering the Magic Kingdom, one of the security guards said to Alli ‘Excuse me Princess, can I have your autograph.’ I could see that the book was filled with children’s scribbles as the guard asked the same question of many little Princesses. Alli could not get over the fact that the guard thought she was a real princess.

Jackie: A student at Mango Elementary gave the police officer patrolling her school this note after the Sandy Hook tragedy.

Jay: I took the afternoon off to make the trek to campus and back, a six-hour round trip slogging through the towns dotting Highway 47. I felt this sudden urge to cheer my son on although I was behind on work. I understood that day that the most important thing I could do for my children—just be there, even if it meant going the extra mile, the way my dad did for me, cheering me on.

"My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person, he believed in me." - Jim Valvano

By Heidi Shebaro 
Founder of "The Kindness Project in the Middle East", a teacher and a blogger